There’s a difference between in being loved and being loved the way you prefer to be loved; the way you longed to be loved.
It might not be the way you deserve to be loved, but it’s what you are familiar with. It’s what coats you with the feeling of comfort. The warmth you desire after a long day. This builds up to a feeling that you want to lock inside of a jar.
That’s what people mean by the spark & connection between two people. They are both loving each other in a way that they want to be loved.
This was inspired by the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.